First impressions can make a huge difference. It just depends on how bad your impression was towards others. It's easy for some people to recover from first impressions but for others it's very difficult.
Bad impressions are really hard to come back from. For instance, how I met one of my closest friend I have. I am not going to say who it is, but if you know who it is don't say anything. Anyways when I first met him he said, "Hey my name is .....", and my fist impression was he's gay, because it was the gayest nickname I ever heard and I thought he was for the longest time but then I got to really know him and to find out he's not. So it is easy for you to recover from a first bad impression just as long as you get to know the person for who they really are.
Everyone thinks and takes things in differently and it's those things that people see that
either makes a relationship or a friendship or just to never have a relationship. If the person is understanding, they'll realize that they are not what you think they are, but if the person jumps to conclusions and just sees you as the first thing that comes inside their head then that person isn't really a person to be friends with because all they do is jump to conclusions.
This is true. But it's terrible you thought they were gay! Laughing out loud. Just kidding, I do the same sometimes. Shaking my head.
ReplyDelete@juancastro shame on you haha but it's true.
DeleteI agree that your first impression shouldn't define who that other person is. I know who your talking about....lol
ReplyDeleteHaha don't tell anyone and thanks for agreeing with me.
DeleteI do agree that sometimes your first impression shouldn't be your last impression on them but thats how life is and sometimes it takes 30 years to replace that first bad impression. But good blog on the upside :)
ReplyDeleteThanks for liking and agreeing and I agree with your point
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